We were having dinner with friends in Nairobi the other evening. A young girl, around 6 years old, was fascinated by this strange man in his black wheelchair. Her intrigue led her to ask a range of questions including why my voice is not clear and why my little fingers go off at an unusual angle. Many people may find such questions intrusive and objectionable, particularly from someone of more mature years. I fully understand and support this position. However, as I proceeded through this examination, I was also reminded how important it is not to push these questions away and even encourage such discussions. What do other people think?
Children are innocently wonderful. Many have asked me why I pull one leg, even my own children. I have always responded by clearly explaining exactly why I am the way I am, not just to children but even to adults. People are better when they know.
My personal sense is that it’s always better to explain things to children. When they understand they are more likely to be more understanding and accepting of diversity - breaking the barriers needs sensitivity and knowledge. Thank you for sharing.
I too am happy to engage with children or adults who are intrigued or fascinated by my wheelchair and, to them, my peculiarities. Being aware of such things is important.